Writer’s Tool #6: The Word “NO”

NO!

It’s a poignant reply, one that is often unemployed by most writers. Very few people realize the power of having creative boundaries.

Simply tell people “no”.

Of course you could opt for a less abrasive approach to “no” like:

• “No thank you.”
• “Sorry, I can’t. I’m writing that day!”
• “I have to get some work done! Thanks though!
• “I can’t volunteer for your bake sale, I have an important writing deadline coming up. Yes I know you need 10,000 cookies by thursday. I’m sorry. Best of luck though! I’m rooting for you! I know you can do it!”
  

• “I can’t, I promised my creative coach I’d have something written for her this week!”

I realize these may not be applicable to every situation. Of course you could always lie by saying you have a “funeral” to attend or something, but I find that honesty is the best policy. Your true friends and family will understand that you need creative time to yourself.

Anyone who gives you a hard time about can go suck a lemon.

It’s a simple word. N and O, spells NO. You’ll find that practicing the art of “no” in your life, will result in extra time for yourself, and a schedule that isn’t quite as hectic as it used to be. Nobody likes having to remember a dozen things they’ve committed to in one week. It’s hard enough having to do things like working a day job, or raising children. LOL – bottom line is, if you have a choice to say “NO” to work on your craft, and you say “YES” … don’t complain that you don’t have enough time to yourself.

You can find other tools like this in the Writer’s Toolbox link, at the top of the page.